Ex husband, after I blocked him, showed up at my doorstep last night. I answered the door without knowing it was him, and tried to shut the door on him.

Long story short, he was able to get a few words in, but I sent him away and quickly.

He told me I have the "wrong idea" of him. I said, no I do not.. you bullied me the other day, all day long. His answer was, you bullied me too.

Same thing again.. I tell him he's abusive, and he responds with "so are you". I tell him he bullies me, and his response is "you bullied me too". As is typical, he can never take responsibility.

IF he shows up again, I am calling the police. He remains blocked.