This is because you are allowing yourself to see the truth verses the illusion you clung to. Yes, your wife lies and twists things around to make herself look like the victim.

People have been trying to help you see the reality, your own children especially your oldest has been trying to reach you.

Your wife is manipulating in an effort to take everything she can from you. She is a twisted alcoholic. That’s why it was important to know your rights.

It’s hard to face the truth because it can be so twisted. I had to go through this myself with my older sister. Things she did were awful and not anything I myself would even think of doing. My sisters children say “my mother lies”.