Yes, this kind of person is very disordered. And these other women give her permission to embrace her identity of being “the victim”. Her curse will be that she believes her own lies and she will descend into madness. She is her own worst enemy.

That is why you must disconnect with her. That is hard for you because you love her and you don’t want to hurt, you are not that kind of person.

Yes, there is often a push pull game and jabs and it’s important you don’t play as there is no good intentions behind her mask, just thinking she is entitled when she is not.