Dagger,
I do not know how things are where you live...but where I see my T there are several therapists. If it is like that where you live perhaps you could see a different T in the same agency. Just a thought.
Don't give up. Someday you will find a therapist who will be able to give you the right diagnosis.
Makes no big difference to me if it is in the DSM IV.
I am pretty sure we exist. *shrugs*