Hi moodyblue83, in another post you said she has a lawyer and collected some info and filed it away to use against you.(you wrote you found a file while going through some old papers.)Looks like she has been planning something. Separation or even a divorce. May be? It looks like she too isn't happy in this marriage. May be at this moment it can't be salvaged anymore.What will you do if she files a divorce?(or else why would she gather as much as dirt on you like you mentioned?)