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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
Rarely are any endings nice endings. Once it becomes a divorce it’s rarely amicable. It doesn’t have to be an ugly war. Even if the other person behaves aggressively, you can stay calm but firm. You don’t have to get into the mud with them.
He won’t be the first husband to go around telling people his ex was crazy, lol. Don’t worry about what he thinks of you or says about you. People take it with a grain of salt, don’t care, and judge you as they know you to be.
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I sent him a scathing final email, telling him off, confronting him on ALL the abuse I've experienced, confronting him on his lies regarding the inheritance, and the bullying I experienced the other day. Unequivocally, I told him to never contact me again, to not approach me when we run into each other, and to not pursue me ever again. He didn't reply, so that's the end of it ALL. FINALLY.
And, our mutual circle of friends all know me fairly well at this point. They all know I am not abusive, or toxic... they won't give into his negativity, if he tries to spread it.
I celebrated today and bought myself some super cute cowgirl boots and a sparkly pink club shirt for going out dancing. It felt good to treat myself!
