It is really unbelievable that parents damage and try to destroy their own children's lives. The grief never goes away.I may feel better if I get a hug from my parents and a genuine apology for what they have done to me.But I don't think that is ever going to happen. If they accept that they have caused damage to me, that makes them imperfect. In their own eyes. They are more than perfect and never made mistakes and they believe it strongly. They are haughty and put themselves on high pedestal. They suffer from" God complex".