A small group has friends who I introduced each other to never ever say they’ll miss me whenever I can’t get together with them. They always say that to each other though.

I’m also the only fat woman in the group who’s not into excercising unlike them. I have started hanging out with a good friend more in the last few years & have spent less time with them. I’m NEVER ever asked about myself.

This one lady talks about the same irritaring stories about her horrible boss & her health issues all the time. No one cares about me it seems like. They usually act bored or feign politness temporarily when I talk about anything.

These women are older than me & in their mid to late 50’s btw. They mostly like boring stuff like bingo. It seems like they’re trying to subtly let me know that I’m not liked & that I’m merely being tolerated out of obligation or guilt. I have stopped hanging around them as much & stopped initiating plans like I used to.

They usually waited for me to contact them until I spoke up. I hate doing things early unlike them & have made that known.

They are boring most of the time but I said nothing. They usually want to go to the same places or nearby places if they dare to try any new place.

Everything has to be done in a group & I’m a one on one person unlike them. Why are they doing this to me?