So these are total strangers and one decides to disclose other person’s marital problems to you, total stranger. I talk to anyone about anything but I’d be taken aback. That’s quite weird. And highly inappropriate. Was he drunk?. Why is blabbing about his friend’s business?

Now you are feeling low. And you were upset he barely said good bye. Dude who thinks it’s appropriate to discuss his friend’s marital and law problems with strangers in the bar is not worth your time. Why worry about these people?.

It’s entirely possible his wife is abusive as you don’t know them. There are plenty of abusive women out there. It’s a stereotype that men are always abusers. You know nothing about these people. Why getting upset and defending his wife whom you don’t even know. It’s very possible she is the issue. Who really knows? Maybe she is abuser or maybe he is or maybe none of them are!

You seem to be meeting weirdos at these venues. You need a change of scenery. You go there to have fun but keep meeting questionable characters and then it ends up being upsetting almost every time.