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Old Apr 29, 2023, 08:57 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
Well I don’t know, it’s just very strange that people discuss their friend’s marriages as soon as friends step out. It’s rude. It’s not a common behavior. I’d be upset if my friends talked about my marriage when I stepped out. I just think it’s not worth to get into their drama because you don’t know them well or at all. I think it probably comes with the territory-type of venue, but they must be intoxicated to be blabbing like this. I don’t know. I associate with all kind of people and am not trying to be a snob, but every guy you run into at these venues sound like really bad news from your descriptions.

If you aren’t upset, it’s all good then. The last thing you need is being upset about these random dudes. I’ll refrain from going on and on about you needing women friends. Lol But I still think that
Not every guy is, but many....

Speaking of new girlfriends! I ran into a female acquaintance last night, and she wants to get together 1:1. So, I am trying to nurture new friendships with women, it just takes time.
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