Sounds fishy to me. Not sure how a couple's therapist should act, but what you wrote sounds strange and disturbing. Am I wrong?

Do you think getting a new couples therapist would be a good idea? I wonder if it would be helpful for you to have your own therapist so that you are not at the mercy of this situation.

Perhaps I am missing something and am wrong here. I am often wrong about things.

So sorry for the distress you are suffering!