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Old Apr 29, 2023, 08:18 PM
Blueowl Blueowl is offline
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There is this guy at work and I work for him, but we only meet shortly once a week just for me to tell him how things are going.

I'll admit that I really like him, but I don't want problems at work.

He had a girlfriend, but overhead him tell someone else that no more. However, I think he has been hanging out with a woman at work because she's shown up at events where she does not belong there, by position, that is. The only connection I see is him because at meetings, they talk to each other and I've seen them drive away together. She's at this workplace temporarily, sort of like a temporary assignment and returns to her old job, which is out of state.

He has brought baked goods to some of our meetings. He's said things to me that have caught me off guard because I didn't think he would have noticed little details about me. There have been times where he has, perhaps, overshared. He's made comments about my appearance, such as noticing when I put my hair up or the shoes I am wearing. He can read me very well; sometimes, all it takes is a look and he knows what I am thinking.

I've dropped hints, to which he has not responded. Sometimes, I think he has dropped hints at me that I didn't realize until later. For example, I told him where I would like to go for a drive and then he responds that I could be driven.

One of the occasions that he brought in baked goods he made himself, he asked me if I liked them. Another person at work, who thinks he is lazy, asked him if he had baked them himself. To which he said, right away, yes, I'm a great catch.

If I didn't work for him, I'd be more forthcoming, but... trying to keep it cool.

Opinions... does he like me (as if maybe romantically) or is he just being polite?

Am also looking to have fun reading responses. Not taking this too seriously!