A very selfish inappropriate thing to say in front of an impressionable young 13 year old.

This is a time when your daughter should be exposed to theater and the arts and nature. Your daughter should be exploring different things to see if there is something she might want to do in life.

Kathryn Hepburn exposed herself to swimming, golfing, theater and met all kinds of interesting people.

Your daughter should not be seeing her mother drunk and “hanging out” with friends that talk like that. Nothing to aspire to.