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Originally Posted by unaluna
President Kennedy said long ago, "Ask not what your country can do for you - ask what you can do for your country." Replace country with partner. I dont see where you notice who your friend is, what she likes, what she wants, your interest in what she says.
Inviting someone on a bike ride sounds like work to me! Plus she has to put a lot of trust in you. Why not just coffee?
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What she likes? Tango dancing (obviously, that is where we met), jazz, art, some sports ... basically much of the things I like too. And she's creative (or better: needs to be creative), just like me.
But she did ask somebody else for the bike ride.
I guess this ship has sailed. I can only hope to learn for the future and if I meet someone in say, four, five years I can hopefully break loose from my patterns.