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Originally Posted by Discombobulated
I wouldn’t say because she’s asked someone else on a bike ride it means she doesn’t like you. She might be interested in socialising generally with different people.
I like unaluna’s suggestion of a coffee. If she accepts then don’t worry about impressing her, you are enough as you are, it’s more about seeing how you gel together at this stage anyhow.
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Wisecrack in me says she prides herself in having stopped drinking coffee five months ago
but I get the point.
Given the recent breakup, that idea had come to mind but constantly having to rationalize these ideas is draining my energy. As my therapist points out, there are many positive things but it is these unpredictabilities that wear me out and make me panic and relive previous events.
I am convinced that if we get together we would be a better match than most.