So, Jay spent last night with me and this morning. We had a very nice time, however, I did take him by surprise at one point. I asked him point blank, so did you hook up with any women while you were gone? The question was on my mind a bit since on his trip, he told me they were meeting all sorts of people, hanging out with all sorts of people, and then they went to dinner with some that they met. So, they were socializing, and we haven't come out and said we're in a "relationship" or that we are "exclusive". He seemed a bit taken aback by my question, answered it by saying no, not at all, and described how there were mainly locals and men that they hung out with. So, I felt better, but then I felt kind of bad for even asking, He had told me before they left that he wasn't going to be "babe shopping" on his trip, but let's face it, anything can happen and it can happen spontaneously and if he's meeting people, then I thought it was a natural question to pose.

This morning I asked him if he was offended by my question, and he said no, it takes a lot to offend him, but admitted that he was thrown off guard by it. Oops. I am used to men being dirt bags, I guess. Maybe I'm projecting too much?