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Originally Posted by Have Hope
Oh no… I just found out my ex husband is also attending a music event tomorrow night, same as me, and it is to celebrate the life of our friend who just died. My heart is already racing and my anxiety is running high. I want to go because it’s important to me to be there. But I’m nervous. And Jay will be there too... I don't want any incidents occurring, and I certainly don't want my ex approaching me OR Jay about anything. UGH!!!! I am going, there is no way I am not going, but this is going to royally suck.
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If you were sick you'd have to stay home, and I'm sure your deceased friend would understand.
It's clear that if you do go, Ken will see you and Jay together unless you agree not to spend time together at the event.
Regardless you may want to have plans in place for how you will handle seeing Ken. You have no idea what he will do, if he will confront you or try to talk to you. If he does, I personally would say something like "I'm here for --- but it's not appropriate for you to talk to me right now."
I know you want to go, but I think your friends would understand if you didn't. It seems important to understand that if you go, you are opening yourself to the possibility of further drama. You do have a choice here, even if it's not an easy choice.
