What do you want in the future in terms of your relationship with him?
And what does he want in the future in his relationship with you?
Is his counselling a helpful activity?

I think that he can still love you - but I don't speak for him and his feelings. What does he say about his feelings? Is he likely to continue with the cyber cheating?

For you to stay in the relationship - what has to happen?
Is there anything in the relationship that does meet your needs?