Oh! And the cheater showed up last night - this guy I dated 5 years ago just before I met my ex husband. The guy who I believe is also a narcissist and who admitted to me that he cheats on every woman, including in his marriage. He was there.... he stood right near me and danced near me all night. It was kind of weird. He had also blocked me years ago after I had called him on the phone to talk about our relationship. I was drunk dialing, going through my first separation and wanted to talk to him for some reason. He blocked me. I think I am still blocked.