I just got out of a marriage over a year ago where we fought all the time. He worked Mon-Fri and was off on the weekends. There was not one weekend that went by where we didn't fight. I thought it was just because I enjoyed the time alone and I dreaded the time when he would be with me all the time.
Anyway, now I am in a healthy loving relationship for about 4 months now. Things can be going good and everything is fine, but I will just start a fight over something. Its like I can't just let myself be happy and enjoy life. I have to start conflict to make things exciting. And when we are in the heat of a fight, I can't just stop and say, "No, lets just stop fighting and sit here and hold each other." Those are the thoughts my mind is saying, and I can't just say them out loud.
I am not sure how long my boyfriend will stick around and put up with me, but he is the kind of person that will do anything to keep me.
That is a whole nother story I might go into later, but for now I want help with this one. I am not sure if I am just used to fighting all the time, I have no idea. But I do know I just want to relaxe and enjoy life. When I think I did to do that, something happens and before I know it we are in different rooms in the middle of a fight
What needs to be done here? Help...