She alerted me to the $100. She did partially pay it back by etransfer and I said it's no big deal.

But, it's that she did that, while transferring out other amounts, and then scooping the $180 I put in there for our daughter. It looks like she was trying to look honorable.

I had a meeting at the bank today to protect things better.

It's a small issue in the big picture. But it definitely riled me up. I expect that was partially the goal. I do think she's probably getting tight on money too.


Can anyone surmise what is in her head right now?

Because I would think it would be....

Wow. I really screwed up. My kids aren't speaking to me, I don't have a ton of my husband's money, I won't be getting support payments, living in an apartment and working a lot of hours to afford it really bites, and I'm driving an old car and I've never once even taken a car to a garage before,
and I let these nasty women sell me on all this stuff and I can't even afford to go party with them or I'm too tired to, and if I can't keep up with them I'm alone because they'll ditch me too.


How can someone NOT be self aware ?!? How does someone NOT self examine ?!?

And how does someone NOT feel guilt ?!?

I always felt like she was in so much pain and self hatred she couldn't even face it.