Also, did your parents have a drinking problem? I ask because some people get very mean and abusive when they drink, even physically abusive.

I had a friend that was nice but would get real mean when she drank. She also developed an addiction to another drug and she ended up divorced and was not allowed near her two sons because she abused them.

The way a person behaves can be due to having a base problem that gets worse when they consume alcohol or combine alcohol with marijuana or cocaine.

For example, we develop an attraction to different movie stars yet if you learn about some of them they were known for having a very dark abusive side to them. Many of them were alcoholics and addicts.