Sounds like too much drama for my taste. I don’t see a point to argue with these people or trying to figure them out. Block and move on.

I am not sure she is jealous of you though and why would she resent you have a husband. Having a husband isn’t an accomplishment plus he majorly sucks. Sure he’s not drug addict like hers but he is horrid in all other ways. He’s paying bills, sure, albeit poorly but he sounds awful besides that. Trust me no one is jealous of that. You often say other women are jealous of you. Why? I never thought that anyone is jealous of me regardless of my circumstances. It’s not high school.

I’d stop guessing why people do what they do. When you don’t like someone, just don’t engage with them. Move on. Don’t waste your time