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Originally Posted by divine1966
I really don’t understand it.
Well someone is always better off than someone else but it doesn’t mean people are jealous. It’s a very unusual way to look at it. My husband is pretty great yet it never occurred to me anyone is jealous of me. (Granted it’s my second try lol). Yet you think people are jealous of you and you have a pretty awful spouse. No one is jealous of that. What evidence do you have that people are jealous?
You want people to be happy for you? Why would people be happy for you for having a husband who mistreats you in most profound ways. It makes zero sense!!! When you complain to us about your husband you want us to be happy for you? No one even semi decent will rejoice over you having such bad marital situation. Or do you think we are jealous too?
In which way you are better off than this woman? Because you don’t work and she does? But that doesn’t make it “better off”.
I am just so confused on the whole thing!
Also you say why all these people don’t like you but you don’t like them either. In fact you try to be friends with all kind of different people whom you don’t like at all. These feelings seem to be always mutual.
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Nevermind about that then. What I’m trying to understand NOW is this. Please stop bringing up what I mentioned in the PAST.
I’m trying to make sense of WHY this lady ignored me for over 10 years. I was hurt. She could’ve called or emailed me but she didn’t. She ignored me when I tried to contact her.
Then all of a sudden she contacts me when she’s single again. Weird! Then she gets nasty with me after I tell her why I don’t want to talk to her in a matter ot fact & honest way. I didn’t insult her. I was just honest.
Then she rudely made all these b.s accusations about how I’m shallow, probably cheating on my husband, etc. How would YOU feel if a former friend made these accusations about YOU?
Wth? Ugh! Then I get accused of being to full of drama on here. I thought this was as a support board. Until now people were nicer & more supportive. These recent posts have not been helpful.
Please do not bring up irrelevant information about past posts. It’d appreciate it. And please don’t accuse me of being to dramatic when I’m just upset over being treated in a nasty & verbally abusive way by this former friend.
I don’t want or need more abuse or negative judgment thanks. Perhaps I might be wrong about the jealousy issue. I don’t think that I’m wrong about them not seeming to not liking me that much despie me being nice to them.
So eventually I start disliking them as well. I don’t understand why they’d dislike me aside from the fact that I’m a bit different from some of them & a bit quieter than most of them usually, idk.
I tend to be more honest & straightforward than most people & I’ve noticed that most people tend to not be as straightforward as I am.
Most people tend to say things they don’t mean to be ‘polite’, lie & make b.s excuses, play games, etc.
I also don’t put other people down to make myself look better or to look ‘cool’. I also have never been a part of the mob mentality or the group think mentality. I think for myself as an individual. I don’t care that much about fitting in.
I don’t understand why I keep getting mistreated by most people. I don’t deserve this b.s.
No wonder I’m starting to give up on other people quickly these days. I have no tolerance for fake people & their b.s, lol 😆