Narcissistic people don’t genuinely love, they USE. They don’t love others, instead it’s all about control. It’s not about your well being, instead it’s all about their own needs being met.
They are Harpy’s that have a song to lure you away and trap and cage you. They don’t want you truly free and happy because if that should happen then they lose their coveted control.

It enrages them if they see you are happy without them. If you get money that can help you be happy they will look to find ways to take it from you. They can be very entitled and vindictive.