Idk, i agree with woven galaxy. Here you are trying to make friends, and someone from your past reaches out. But instead of giving them the benefit of the doubt, you turn all rodney dangerfield and insult them. People can change in ten years, mellow out. I think you lost a chance at rekindling a friendship. I used to be "honest" too. Its not true honesty. Its just not caring about other peoples feelings. But that was the environment i was raised in, so i didnt know any better. I am still learning how to be kind. Its much easier to be judgmental.