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Old May 06, 2023, 11:10 AM
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Originally Posted by rdgrad15 View Post
Yeah a nice group of friends would be nice but I never truly had a good group since college and even that group was a bit shady. I currently have just one friend but I don't get too close to her due to her on and off behavior which hints that she isn't someone you can get close to. She's one of those people who say you guys are best friends but deep down inside you know it's really not true. Another actual group would be nice though at some point but that most likely won't happen since most adults only have 1-3 friends and usually they're not friends with each other or even know each other which is okay to be honest.
I haven’t had that since I was around that age either and we weren’t exactly CLOSE close, but we knew each other and hung out. Hence I live through my tv shows. Same with the close family on Blue Bloods. On and off behavior is definitely not someone to count on, so not a real friend.

Supposedly most adults do just have 1 or 2 real friends but if they know each other, that could be a mixed bag. They could end up talking about you, that’s happened to me. Or they gossip about someone we both know. Adults, not teens!

I see so many people on their phones all the time and I wonder now who are they talking to. I wonder if they are close friends or just acquaintances. Or someone they know online only. Same with groups of people I see. Are they real friends?



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