This guy you were writing about has red flags all over him. On the upside, he’s telling you who he is. And this is the best behavior you will see him display, which means you have not seen his worst side. Hey! Just like he told you up front, you could tell him you’d rather be friends first. And then meet some of his friends and find out what they think of him.

You are better off alone than in bad company. Don’t be with someone because you are lonely or feel like you should. I did and am getting a divorce. Could I stay married? Well, yes. And I would be miserable.

Don’t think all couples are happy. Some are, yes.

Try to do more of what makes you happy.