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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
You are finally seeing the dysfunction that became your normal that was unhealthy for you.
It’s going to take you time to learn how to live your life yourself n a healthier way. There is a grieving that takes place in this process along with uncertainty.
As time passes, even though you still face uncertainties, you begin to feel stronger. It does require patience with self though 😉
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never known anything but dysfunction, unhealthy dynamics since birth.
working very hard to break the cycle with my kids.
i can live healthier myself pretty easily. its easy when i don't have to live around others decisions.
i really did believe my husband and i were overcoming our dysfunctional upbringings. maybe we came a long way together, but weren't going to make it any further together. im done beating myself up about the past, our relationship trajectory, that i hung in too long, etc etc.
i am focused on strength. i have been accomplishing the things im setting out to do. however my nerves really need a break.