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Originally Posted by Have Hope
The story was a bit hard for me to follow, tbh... seems there was a lot of drama and back and forth between you. From what I gather, you rejected her and as a result, she lashed out at you. And then it seems to have unraveled from there into a back and forth argument? Perhaps now that she is single, she is trying to rekindle old relationships.. this does happen often when people become single again. You have a right to question her motives since she had flaked out on you in the past and didn't seem to be a reliable friend. Perhaps she took your rejection really hard and it hurt her so she reacted the way she did? I don't know about any jealousy... it's hard to tell based on this story and these details.
I had the same thing happen to me several years ago, but with an online friend. We had been in close touch for several years, writing very personal, detailed and lengthy emails to each other and supporting each other in our respective life challenges. Suddenly, she stopped replying to me, out of the blue. And then I didn't hear from her for 3 whole years. She suddenly reappeared, wanting to rekindle the friendship, but I had been so hurt by her disappearance that I rejected her and as a result, she lashed out at me very angrily in a similar way as your old friend.
I would just chalk it up to her being hurt and hurtful in reply.
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I was honest with her. I wasn’t trying to hirt her feelings. She reacted to my honesty in a rude nasty & insulting way. Especially when she claimed tgat i was cheating on my husband or that I wanted to cheT on him just because I talked to a few guys online & at these socual events that took place once or teice a month. Weird!
I never flirted with any of them. I think shedding delusional or making up crap to upset me. What was I supposed to do at these events, ignore every guy & tell them to not talk to me because I’m married? lol
She ‘s weird & crazy! Sorry to hear aboit your online friend. You understand why I reject les her. Some pon here don’t it seems like. How csn it not be a big deal to be ignored foe over ten years & not even get a Christmas card or anything at alk? To only contact me because she’s now single is rude
I’ve had female friends like this before who’d drop everything for a guy but treat me like I wasn’t thst important unkess they needed me to talk a our their boyfriend issues with, ugh!
They suck! They’re selfish & boting as conversations mostly revolve around themselves & talk abour their boyfriend & guys.
Your friend was immature like my former friend is. You hurt her fragile ego, so she lashed out at you too.