My ex husband had numerous health issues that interfered with our relationship. His body was riddled with injuries preventing him from doing anything physical, not even walking longer distance. So I had to do these things on my own, which is fine, but it wasn't my ultimate preference. I prefer someone who can do outdoor activities with me because there are many that I enjoy such as hiking, skiing, roller blading, kayaking, and sailing, to name a few, none of which my husband could do! And it did frustrate me. Slowly but surely, I stopped pursuing these activities myself, which was my own fault. I also was very very terrified of having to take care of an invalid, long before we were ready to retire. His body is failing him, and I did worry about this quite a bit.

So, my long-winded way of giving feedback is it all depends on how this situation makes you feel. If you feel afraid and seriously concerned about your future with this person, that's a red flag to yourself. If you are ok with possibly having to be a caretaker at some stage, and perhaps earlier than your senior years, then that's a good thing. If you feel you can live your life in ways that are healthy and best for you, without holding yourself back, then that's a good sign. But, on the opposite end, if you truly want a healthier partner and if these limitations immensely bother you, then it's something to consider as a factor in the whole picture of whether you want to marry or not . You mention that you've already dealt with some health issues - like what? You said it made you feel scared... so, pay attention to those feelings and don't ignore them. I actually grieved over marrying someone whose health was not what I had wanted before I married him.