My husband had very serious health issues that were the result of a work accident that he had before we ever met. I went into our marriage fully aware that he had a medical condition that was incurable and degenerative. We were married for 34 years when Covid killed him in 2021.

It was always a factor in our life together, but it had zero impact on our loving relationship. He also had old family wounds which were honestly a bigger factor in our marriage than his health issues. Therapy to deal with his family trauma was imperative and was healing for him and our marriage. I also had old wounds that I worked through in therapy.

Hopefully she will be able to work through her past that affects her present because those are the problems that are probably more likely to create issues in your marriage.