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I have been following ACT sessions for a year. I thought it was a valuable set of ideas. However, the personal mentor I was assigned to was constantly pressuring me into things that made me drift away from my own values (with everybody, he behaved as if he had the key to a happy life: his own superficial ideas and lifestyl and he was trying to force that upon all those he was responsible for). For me it was a struggle ...
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The whole point of ACT is to discover and strive for one's own values. The therapist was wrong, and completely anti-ACT, to try to impose values on you.
You can pursue ACT on your own, via self-study and practice. The main idea being to take steps to achieve your goals, regardless of what thoughts and feelings are going through your mind. So: good job asking her to accompany you!!