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Old May 08, 2023, 07:50 PM
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
Often people would rather make excuses than outright tell you they don’t want to get together with you. They just don’t like confrontation and would rather lie.

When I have felt like a friend wasn’t interested in seeing me, I backed off right away. It would have felt really embarrassing to me to keep pressing them and getting rejected. I would take the hint.
I understand thar. My point us thus: the working all weekend on both Saturday & Sunday all of a sudden on too of working overtime during the week sounds fishy to me.

It spinds like a lie. She’s never said anything about working on the weekends before. We never had any manor disagreements, so I don’t understand why she’d do this.

I’m not unreasonable. If she needs space, she should just tell me that & not make up a possible lie that I’d question her on.