I wonder if I should tell my grandmother (On my moms side) to exercise, just even a little bit... All she does is sit on FB all day, in the dark, in a mansion, alone. She has agoraphobia now. I thought of giving her a packet of diazepam (She used to order it online, and was in WD during our Mexico vacation when I was 12 - I thought she was just "sick").

A little bit of exercise, and she could outlive my parents even.

My other grandmother will die I'm sure very soon. It's very sad.. The family wants her to die. She tortures my dad, still.

I am also somewhat a realist. But I have too much empathy for anyone, no matter how evil they seem. She will go to hell though.