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Originally Posted by ruby2023
I’m in therapy once a week because of her. She cares about my coworkers but not me. The past few months it caused my anger issues and I yell at coworkers and be snarky to customers. Had so many customer complaints already. As of yesterday, I’m snarky with my favorite person as well. She’s the first favorite person I had that I’m snarky with and I shoulda done that with the lady at arby
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Ruby, you don't take responsibility for your poor behaviors. "I'm in therapy once a week because of her". NO. It's because of your poor boundaries with your manager that you need to speak with a therapist. "The past few months it caused my anger issues and I yell at customers and be snarky to customers". NO. As a result of you pushing the boundaries with your manager, and as a result of you demanding so much attention from all those you admire, you act out your hurt feelings and you act out your anger with your customers and co-workers.
No one causes your anger issues - you act out your emotions and take out your hurt feelings on other people which always gets you into trouble in every job you've had, which inevitably gets you fired!
You have a therapist. Inform the therapist of this issue with yourself... please work on taking responsibility for your actions and for your own hurt feelings. Stop acting out at work. Work on talking through your hurt and angry feelings in therapy.