It's like he wrote me off because I said I am not free this Saturday and I was so tired. Now that I think of it he does sound high maintenance and contolling. He ghosted me after I cancelled a date and even told me he does that if his date doesn't meet himevery 2-3 days. After 2 dates it's a bit too much.
My ex has extremely sick parents he takes care of 24h a day literally. I won't go into details but they are very sick and will never get better, their horrible disabilities will only get worse sadly. Even now he can't leave them alone for more tban an hour. They are very poor so they don't have any help and he does all that alone including all chores and medical care. While I think it's very noble of him and extdemely hard and demanding to do this tellimg me to wait for him can last years. And I can't help him no one can. Life can suck.