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Originally Posted by jesyka
Thanks. I’m definitely worried. I offered my support before, but she hasn’t called ot texted me for helo. I’m not sure if she’s currently seeing anyone. She was getting help in the past.
She has told me some really horrible things like how she was almost murdered by a psycho ex boyfriend. And how one ex husband turned out to be an abusive pedophile who went to jail.
I think that she likes to deal with most things on her own, idk. I’m reluctant to say anything as she’ll shun my help. I just know it. And what if I’m wrong too?
It’s odd to how she goes to the bathroom a lot, but it could be a part of her autoimmune disease too.
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She may have some ptsd from going through these horrible experiences. People who struggle with ptsd tend to avoid crowds and noisy places. As a result they make excuses when asked to go out. It’s more about wanting to minimize doing anything that may end up triggering the ptsd.
It is easier to make up excuses rather then trying to explain.