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Originally Posted by divine1966
I also think it’s worth to remember not only she works a lot of hours but she’s also married, so she would spend time with her husband too and perhaps she has kids too?
I don’t believe in being attached to the hip and I socialize with my girlfriends too but for someone who’s working full time and is married it’s unrealistic to spend frequent weekends with girlfriends. Just not realistic for the life style. Maybe once a month?
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I understand that. The point of my post was that she didn’t need to go so far to maybe lie about now working EVERY single weekend hust to avoid me! That’s hurtful & it makes me feel as if she’s no longer trustworthy. What else is she willing to lie about now? That’s a big one for me!
She can simply say she needs space & I’d respect that. It’s ridiculous to insult my intelligence with something that is probably a lie. I doubt that her or anyone else would be OK with being lied to like that. But I’m supposed to just accept it? OK, whatever.
I don’t call, text, email or ask her to go out all the time btw I just ask her to go out twice a month tops. I understood when she said she wanted to spend time with her husband or visit her sister. I didn’t bug her to hang out with me. I have a husband & other friends
She should’ve been honest with me. I’m not going to contact her period now. I’ll let her contact me first whenever she feels like she is ready to hang out again.
As I said before, she likes the fact that I het her out of the house. Now I’m being ignored, weird! People are weird! She should ask for space instead of maybe lying to me. I’m not bugging her. Oh, she doesn’t have kids btw.
She did sat something a bit odd to me a few time. She sais she only see’s me & her sister usually now & thar she see’s me more than her own sister as she travels with her husband a lot.
I sometimes worry that I triggered her with my comments about her eating habits too. I need to remember to never ever mention any possible triggers again.