Square people? Lol I don’t know who are square people and what are you trying to say. I don’t think having a full time employment makes one “square” person. Having a profession doesn’t make one square or boring or what not. Just makes people being able to afford more and less dependent on others. You can be very unique and still have a career. Not saying he needs to be a lawyer. Plumbing snd carpeting are great professions (just an example).

Not sure what you mean by going online. You can meet great people everywhere. Don’t need to be online. In fact there are ton of horrid people lurking online.

If you like the guy, it’s all that matters, it’s all good. Nothing wrong with music community. It doesn’t prevent people from having a stable job! You expressed concern about bad credit and money issue was a problem in your marriage and previous relationships, so I suggest you keep your eyes peeled.

But if it’s all good and if you are happy with him, then I am happy for you.