Jay is definitely moving very slowly, and at times it's been frustrating for me. I am used the way my ex would text me - he would respond fairly quickly to me, and we would text/communicate frequently. With Jay, it's much slower, more spread out and far less communication than I am used to. I need to adjust and be patient... my ex moved way too fast, so I know that slowing down is far healthier and more natural. But this is very slow with Jay, exceptionally slow I feel, so I am trying not to be frustrated.