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Originally Posted by divine1966
How often does he contact you between the dates? Is it at least daily? I’d pay attention to how he communicates with others. If he talks to his buddies all day but not you, then it’s a red flag but if he doesn’t talk to anyone much, then it’s just his personality. Not into calling or texting people much
Also it’s ok to bring it up. Some men aren’t sure how much is too much and don’t know if frequent communication would be bothersome to a woman. He also might be careful in regards to getting too serious since he’s not interested in commitment (cohabitation). I think it’s ok to discuss all that before you become frustrated in lack of whatever is lacking
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We do text/communicate daily. I don't know how often he speaks to his buddies.. I have no clue. He did tell me he is a loner, so perhaps it is his personality?
I know he's deliberately taking things slowly. I didn't want to declare the other day that I am suddenly his "girlfriend", but it has been 2 months that we've been seeing each other on a weekly and regular basis, so I would prefer more communication, but I also don't want to push him beyond where he is comfortable, ya know?