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Originally Posted by What_the_hell
Since we've started living together, she was getting healthier overall and limited/ changed some unhealthy habits. But there is definitely room to grow. What bothers me is that these changes are done because I am in her life and she wants to have long-term plans with me. If our relationship was to end, she would treat herself differently. I wish she was motivated to be healthy for herself.
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You as a motivation might over time be joined by her as a motivation.
I find it hard to build up a life again and don't always find the motivation to keep going. At those moments, it is other people that keep me going but I must admit that over time, I do find some motivation in myself ...