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Originally Posted by Samicat
Yeah I wouldn't want to drive 5 hours for that either. He has to decide where his priorities lie. I can't stand it when someone is hot and cold. My husband hardly ever distances me like that and we've been together 26+ years.
In my view, the friend who said he'd be "all over you" if it was him- what a gross and inappropriate comment. He is hitting on you while he knows you are dating Jay. Also I hope he is single because that is cheating behaviour if he's in a relationship.
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The friend who said that is a bit of a scoundrel. He’s married and hits on other women at shows.
I’m trying to communicate with Jay, and he’s not communicating. He said at 8 this morning we would “talk soon” and by 4 pm I hadn’t heard anything from him. So I just wrote a text now telling him I think we’re on different pages in terms of what we want… that it seems he wants distance and space, and not a real relationship, and that I want a real relationship to develop. I feel or fear this is ending. I’m sad.