Honestly ton of people love outdoor activities and music. It’s not enough for a relationship. It’s enough for friendships and activity partnerships. Having things in common is very important but not enough.

When I react to something with disproportionate intensity it was because my guts are telling me that something is off. He can’t give you what you want. The way you react to it wouldn’t change the essence

If you want outdoor activities partners and music events appreciating crowd, you need friendships more than anything. And you are just coming out of divorce so it’s not really the best time for dating