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May 12, 2023, 11:14 AM
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Member Since: Dec 2014
Location: US
Posts: 23,238
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Originally Posted by Have Hope
I feel ready to date, and I want to date. Only I can determine if I am ready or not. It doesn't matter that I am coming off a divorce. Many people date just following a divorce, especially if you want a life partner, ultimately. I am not getting any younger, and I know what I want and what I am looking for.
I don't think I reacted with disproportionate intensity, if that's what you're saying? Sure, I took off the other night without telling him, but it had been building within me over the last week or so that I sensed we're on very different pages. By keeping his distance from me at the show, it was the culmination of that feeling, and I just kind of was like, this isn't what I want after 2 months of dating... I wanted more.
So it is what it is.. .maybe I didn't react well or in the best manner, but I was hurt, and I ran away.
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No it wasn’t what I was saying. I honestly thought you acted just fine. He paid no attention to you so you left. You said you didn’t act right and thought you were over board just walking out etc Well maybe it’s disproportionate but it’s because it didn’t feel right. When I don’t feel right I might do the same thing.
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