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Old May 13, 2023, 06:25 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
If you just ended it with someone you really liked and went on a date with someone new -not interesting- it’s only normal to miss your previous person. It’s not because it’s a sign to go back or he is your soul mate but because you are vulnerable and a new person didn’t ignite the spark (and how could they that quick?).

I know you said you are ready to date and I am all for it but maybe give it a few days/weeks? If someone asks you out, don’t say no but say you are single and available but will be busy next few weeks and schedule a date few weeks from now or tell them you’ll call back. You don’t have to go out just because a man asked, you could determine the time frame. If he’s interested he’ll absolutely wait (well maybe not 6 month but he’ll wait)
After last night's date (see my description above!), I am definitely holding off on any more dates for the moment.
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Thanks for this!
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