Validation from my oldest went a long way to me seeing my value.

My former manager, whom I really respected, and coworkers, telling me how much leadership they saw from me during the first year of Covid went a long way, and then the people who stepped in to support and "catch" me in the first weeks after my separation.... They were people I regarded as deeply good, intelligent people, and they saw value in me.

Marcus Aurelius said you are the average of the five people you are closest to. A good friend, whom I respect hugely, said that to me, and thanked me for skewing his average higher by being his friend.

You guys see value in me, and you are thoughtful (not "nice", I mean people who proceed with thought), insightful people.

So.... I'm getting there.

I have to work on impulse control. I'm easily baited by her and defensive.

Thank you.

I'll think of you when making donations.