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Old May 13, 2023, 02:45 PM
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Originally Posted by Have Hope View Post
Well I’ve definitely wondered why he was so attached to her. He told me at one point, well she’s very beautiful for one. And she is. She looks like a model. I saw pics of her. But she sounded like a mess inside. Why he would want that, who knows. Maybe he is attracted to unstable and chaotic.
Some men are very simple. If a woman is pretty, that’s all they care about. They don’t care what’s inside. Some aren’t that deep.

I’d say if she is such a mess, it’s very irresponsible of this guy to allow her raising a kid full time with father providing minimum involvement from a far. It can’t be good for a child. No judge would allow her to move if she was such a mess and the father objected. Red flag. Not a responsible parent.

I bet if you asked her, she’d have a different story. 99% that your soon to be ex tells people how unstable and messed up you were. And next woman would wonder why he even liked you. Take it all with a grain of salt
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