(((((Razzleberry))))) I’m so sorry, I can’t even begin to imagine how you feel right now. Could he be perhaps staying because in this condition you need him, and when you recover you won’t? Is he worried that his own issues may be revealed?

That he joked about it… perhaps I’m projecting but WOW that’s low. Or is that his defense mechanism? You still have a couple of days. Is it possible to let him know how important this is for YOU and your marriage, that its serious and that you wish that he would come if only to support you. I’d talk to him again right away. Let him know how much it hurt you that he belittled what you are trying to do. Not in attack mode, but as a wife asking for help from her husband.

If you communicate how very important this is to you, and he still refuses, I think the only thing that you can do is take care of yourself and your issues. I so hope he decides to go.